Saturday, June 19, 2010

lakkis marriage

lakki is my youngest daughter. Prasad and my self wanted to plan and perform the marriage in a very grand fashion. prasad got a contract and he was very happy. He used to say that he would save money from these contract works and utilise it for her marriage. he got first payment of the bill in december,2009.
But after his demise we thought of doing her marriage with in one year.Because if we do it like that.kanyadanaphalam goes to him.the boy he liked most for her was Chandrasekhar.and by gods grace .\, that match is confirmed.marriage is fixed for december 10th,2010.
I hope wish sincerely that he will shower his blessings on me and may children and their families.
Because I sincerely feel that he is the force behind every thing good that has taken place after his parting.Ireally miss him.

manoharan rrelieved

manoharan is our officer. he worked at madanapalli branch for the past 4 years. practically he was vexed. last year he was given transfer orders but was not relieved for some reasons. this time his reliever had joined two weeks back. yesterday he gave us party at roja lodge. I took Mythili also along with me to the party with Manoharans consent. We had gobi manchuria, veg parota,dal fry. green peas masala. fried rice and sprite.
Today manager had come from Hyderabad and conducted meeting to relieve him. Manoharan said that he suffered a lot the first six months due health problems and hotel food. These past four years he could not attend even a single function of his relatives. He could not join his son personally into college.He could not look after his wife when she was not well. i felt sorry for him. Everyone wished him well and we dispersed. compared to workmen ,officers are afraid to disobey the manager because he would spoil their records.
today I dyed my hair partially because tomorrow I am leaving for kadapa.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

lakkys job

lakky is my yougest daughter.she has secured a job at last. her marriage is fixed. prasd was very much interested in that boy. In fact all our family members were in favor of tah match. It too,is confirmed. marriage is scheduled on dec 10th,2010. We have already started marriage preparations.
In todays news Ishwarya bacchan s marriage is confirmed. Iam very happy to know about it.Prasads demise is a huge loss to me personally and to my family members. but i am happy that my children and vani and chaithanya and chandu have taken inspiration from him in continuing hte bond of love and affection to all and succeeded.thank you all.
Now i am making preaprations in going to kadapa for the Gruhapravesam function of vanis parents. Just now I bought a sizzling saree and dhotis to them on behalf of my children.Gruhapravesam is scheduled on 21/6/2010. On that night I am leaving for hyderabad to attend stc trainig on cbs for end users. Today ihave withdrawn the advance ta also. From kadapa they have booked sleeper coach bus to me. This is the first time Iam going to alight such a bus.
At first Irather felt funk to go to hyderabad alla lone and almost cancelled the program. but my son Vliiky had boosted up my morale and advised me not to be afraid for petty and small things. I needed that moral backup very much. Normally I am not timid or afraid of any thing . but recent developments had marked a dent in my armature.But now i am back to my normal nature.So I am going to the training at last.
i have decided to stay with my colleagues in a hotel and attend the training. I am going to reach their hotel alla lone.
Whem\n my childrens support is there , I need not fera for anything in this world. bravo!!

Friday, June 11, 2010

demise of my husband

hai,recently i lost my husband. he had heart attack on jan,21 2010. On knowing about the dact I rushed to Tirupathi,By thetime I went ,he was already admitted in a private hospital.to me he looked normal.HE was active. he was taliking normally.Icould not assess the seriousness.I thought he was in good hands.My sisters. and others came and talked with the doctor. he said there was no alarm and the patient responede to medicine very well.so we relaxed.but next dayafternoon he had low bp. but doctors have not informed. But my husband himself told me. By evening he had second stroke and even then doctor did not inform me. When I told of the developments to my brother he suspected second stroke and enquired with the doctor. then he checked and confirmed . he then told that he was not comfortable in treating the patient and told us tto go some whwre for treatment.he said that immediately angioplasty had to be done. he could not be taken to chennai also. so under emergency, we shifted him to svims and there they performed angioplasy. there wereb two blocks . only one was removed.