Sardukupodaam(!)aaa?

Jeevitham lo manam chaalaavishayaalalo sardukupovaali.sarduku pothaamu koodaa.kaani konni saarlu chaalaa strenuous anipisthundi...ee sardukupovadam ane prakriya.manam mana thalli,dandrulani,thoda buttina vaallani choose chesukolemu.chaalaa saarlu siblings lo understanding baagaa vundadu.okari alochanaa vidhaanam,behaviour,looks,outlook...ilaa chaalaa vishayaalalo thedaalu vuntaayi.konni chotla thalli dandrulu methakagaa vuntaaru,biddalu katinamgaa,rough gaa vuntaaru.inko chota paristhidhi reverse lo vuntundi.chaalaa saaarlu mingalemu,kakkalemu.idanthaa simple gaa cheppaalante survival tactics.monna aa madhya national geography channel lo choinchaaru.mating samayam lo oka aada puli daggaraku mogadi vasthundi.anthatitho vyavahaaram aagakundaa,inko male koodaa vasthundi....female tiger has to satisfy both the male tigers....either for progeny sake or survival sake.it meekly submits to both of them! Mana indlalo koodaa okaru adjust avuthu vuntaaru...inkollu demand chesthu vuntaaru.idi oka anthu leni kadha.actually oka stage lo suffocating gaa vuntundi,oopiri aadadu...kaani iddariki vaalla vaalla portions notiki vachchesuntaayi.okaru aggressive ayithe inkokallu submissive.okariki bookish knowledge ayithe inkokalladibathakanerchina thanam. Prathi relationship lonu give and take anedi vundaali.adi leka pothe aa relations survive kaavu.oka vela survive ayinaa manaspoorthigaa,aanandangaa matuku lhachchithangaa kaadu. Most of the times necessity or being cornered by stronger partner main reason ayivuntundi.manam kalisi bathakaali,oka relationship ni nirantharam maintain cheyyaali annappudu why not on a proper and happy note?sankalu,anumaanaalu,balaalu,balaheenathalu,manchi chedulu assess chesukoni,smooth gaa,saafee gaa,coffee with karan laagaa hilarious gaa,manchigaa okallani okallu gouravinchukuntu,snehapoorvakangaa yenduku relationships maintain chesukokoodadu? Naaku thelisi prathi okkallu simhaavalokanam chesukovaali,appudappudu.manatho kalisi vunde vaallu,jeevinchevaallu...are they happy with us,in our relationship?are we demanding too much?are we not giving as much as the other person gives us?giving and taking anedi okka materialistic level lo nenu cheppatam ledu.premalu,abhimaanaalu,concern,sakhyatha,saamarasyam,kshamaagunam,giving berth for the other person,respecting others point of view,helping in times of need,lnding shoulder in times of need,enjoying others prsence without any inhibitions,maintaining comfort level and letting them feel at home,see that there is no communication gap between you and many such things. Oka relationship strain ayyedaaniki ee communication gap anedi chaalaa saarlu kaaranam avuthundi.manam oka maata maatlaadetappudu,yedo oka wrong mood lo vuntaamu,chinna daanike visukkuntaamu,cheedarinchukuntaamu,yeduti vaallu cheppedi poorthigaa vinamu,madhyalone kopam vasthundi...situation ni chethulaaraa naasanam chesukuntaamu.thappu manadi ani tharuvaatha thelisinaa sorry cheppedaaniki aham addu vasthundi.mana alochanaa vidhaanam ,mindset yelaa vuntundi ante thappy yedutivaadidi ayithe vaade khachchithangaa sorry cheppaali,thappu manadi ayithe vaade mundara maata kalapavachchu kadaa,allappudu thappu vaadidi ayinaa nenu sardukupoyaanu kadaa anipisthundi. Ilaa simple gaa goruyho poyedaanini,rokali daaka thechchukuntaamu. Kaabatti ye relationship lo ayinaa pattu vidupulu vundaali.manam yentha correct ayinaa,chaalaa saarlu maname thaggaalsi vasthundi situation ni control lo thechchukune daaniki.aa thaggatam mana votami anuko koodadu.in the long run,daani valla chaalaa manchi jaruguthundi kaabatti definite gaa.veetannitiki anthaa patience impartial gaa situation ni assess cheyatam vundaali.we should not get carried away by petty distracting incidents or situations. Denikainaa oka reasonable limit vuntundi.if you really feel that the other person is taking undue advantage of your good and meaning ful gestures,you should strictly show him the reality and let him understand the situation and how things would detereorate if he persists in his egoistical approach. Kaabatti most of the time,in the ineterest of the family,friends and gatherings,we should be flexible and reasonable and practical.if they feel that it is your weakness in accomodating them,you should not shy from revealing the facts and their faults. Kaabatti sardukupodaamu kaani not at the cost of your self respect and dignity!