Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Victim aadainaa,mogainaa...rape is rape!

Ninna oka article chadivaanu,new york times lo. Ex military person raasaadu.thirty years bavk he was a victim of gang rape by fellow personnel while in army. They were of same sex,but called themselves heterosexuals.he survived the rape and was released with stern warning that they would kill him of he told it to others.next day, vaalla other colleagues ,yendi nee vonti meeda ruises ani adigithe,mundara roju,thaagi godava padinappudu ayyaayi ani cheppaadanta. Kaani vaallandaru navvaaranta,aa answer vini. So,many know what had happened to the poor boy. Kaani yevaru noru vippaledu. It is a silent trauma for th victims. They cant reveal their agony,humility and trauma to anyone.even if they complained,no one would take  it seriously and punish the offenders. Itlaa punish chesthe,migilina vaallannaa ee events repeat cheyakundaa vuntaaru kadaa. Vaallanu gurinchi pattinchukokundaa,care free gaa vadile tappatiki veellu inkaa vijhrumbisthaaru.
Mental gaa chaalaa suffer ayyaadata. Oka saari psychiatrist daggariki vellaadu. Ame ithaniroblems anni adigi treat chesthu vunnindata. There was no marked improvement. Oka session lo ame,why dont you tell about your rape,what had happened then,ani adigindata. He was shocked, how did you know that i was raped way back thirty years ani adigaadata.naa daggariki chaalaa mandi military persons vasthuntaaru. Vaallalo chaalaa mandi rape victims. Ee secret ni manasulo daachukoleka,bayataki cheppukoleka,chaalaa mandi suicide koodaa commit chesthuntaaru ani cheppindata.
Inka victims aada vaallu ayithe,vaalla maanasika vyadha inkaa yenni times yekkuvagaa vuntundo oohinchandi.
Ilaa jaraga koodadane prathi okkaru aasisthaamu. Kaani ilaa jariginappudu,adi bayataku chebithe,konchem mental relief vuntundi. Manamu okkallame kaadu ,ilaa ayindi ani oka dhairyam vuntundi. Alaanti vaallaku ayina vaallu moral support,dhairyam isthe,vaallu thondaragaa kolukoni,main stream loko raagaluguthaaru.
Rapists laku katina mayina sikhalu vidhisthe, inkokaru ilaanti aghaayithyaalu cheyakundaa aapagaluguthaamu. Lekaothe ilaanti keechakulu ibbadi mubbadi gaa perigothuntaaru.

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